Wednesday, December 24, 2008 at 12.52pm

Hello~~ anyone there?? Knock* knock* hehe


Hi, I’m back at last to the blog world and it’s a long time I haven’t write any blogs as I don’t have internet at home and I have to walk myself to cyber café(CC) which the walking distance can make you thin… haha~~ but seriously, who goes CC to write blogs?? Normally, there users who applying on9 jobs, on9 gambling =_=” and of coz the most important of all….. “GAMING”  powerful word at CC…


Lolzz… wutevar the reason is, I decided to type at home and post it at CC… and that is not a choice~~( house no $$$ apply streamyx, what to do… have to save, save and save.)

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Looks like there were a lot tension’s arising around my group friends particularly after few months back ending our convocations. There is a lot stories bout people “pao yi lai” means by having a third party involved in current relationship. There is a lot stories bout this and that person started relationship. There is issues bout shifting houses. And lastly there are issues facing the reality world of the workforce.

Talking bout “pao-ing yi lai”, I have to apologize for bringing this matter out… kaka… plz don’t hurt me, you guys know who I’m referring to… for next time I’m going Sabah, don’t kill me ya… hoho

Well, bout this matter something I could really ask is… did you lose anyone before?? Someone who you won’t see anymore and chat anymore and importantly, you won’t be with the person closest to you anymore in this world?? Juz for a hint, a person does not have any traumatic childhood background cant answer such questions. I do loss a few of my friends, I think there is 5 or 6 of them… different gang of groups, some are closest to me during form 1, 3, 4, lower and upper 6… someone who accompanies by walking back home, someone who will struggle for food with a bunch of gangs, and someone who join you “yam cha” at the warong outside of my house junction.


Haha… life was so beautiful being with them... But it is painful when each of them leaving this world... Does anyone understand what kinda feelings I had? I can say it is not something I can tell here in da blog… I juz wanna type out for:
1st killing my time

2nd juz feel to type something

3rd tell out what I feels bout this “pao yi lai” stuff


No offence to anyone involved in my blog… really, seriously… any offence… hehe


I personally think that, a person having third party involved were not those who appreciates current partner in their relationship. The will of the person are not strong enough. And what I can say here is, they did not loss anyone before. I’ve heard a lot of friends saying; always being with their own partner make them have a word called “sien” which was to meant by bored. I’ve heard it from M, H, T and a lot more friends from my current university. I kept wondering why humans may come to the extend by thinking through this way. Is the word “sien” is applicable to any relationship??

To my opinion, try answer questions like; what do you do when your partner wont be able to be by your side every single day and night?? What happen if your partner is no more in this world where you can see their smiles, laughter, were you can share your personal moments with??? Doesn’t it made you realize that time was so short and time moves too fast to realize your old and losing everyone in your lives?


To myself, I’m not to say that I’m agreeing or disagreeing to those individuals who thinks of being bored always attached to their partner, I am a person who enjoys and appreciates every single second or minutes being with my partner. If I have the opportunity being with her 24 hours for 7 days, I hope god gave me 9 or 10 days per week instead of the 7 given. I dare to say, if I ever mention bout I’m being bored with my partner, please feel free to remind me of what I’ve written in my blog. I dare to say I wont ever come a cross with the word “sien” with my partner for every single day I’m with her.


The purpose of typing this blog is trying to give out message that, treasure all of the time being with your partner and don’t neglect every single time you could spend with your partner.


I do believe that you can’t predict what is going to happen tomorrow. Anything could happen while your not aware with. Currently there is 1 sort of a friend of mine whom I played basketball with during younger age, slashed by thief at the morning at his own car porch when he’s trying to go into the car. The next day, pictures bout him published into the paper. I forgot what date already…. Aiksss… Player down, I repeat... player is down…


Haha… this is the moment, I would like to end up this post of blog now. Please, some of you guys out there who add-in the word “sien” in their relationship, take some of my advice… I don’t know if there will be anyone would agree with my opinions and thoughts but that is what I am and what I’ll be. As for anyone felt offended in this blog. I would like to beg for your forgiveness okay? Apologies to anyone involved into my blog. And I would like to wish everyone a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. And take note that, Chinese New Year is juz around the corner, new clothes, new stuffs and of coz no new partners okay?? Hahahahahaha